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Good Suggestions from Great Moms

April 12, 2011 in Parenthood & Life • Early Days with #1 • Projects & Tips for Babies & Kids

In my super-expansive 8 months as a mother (haha) I have picked up some bits of wisdom from some of the more experienced mamas I've talked to.  Below are some of the best tips I've found. I'd love to hear more pieces of advice from anyone else! Anything to make this job a little easier, right?

Naked Time
Babies need Naked Time, people. They need to air out their tushies (this helps prevent/treat diaper rashes) and the freedom from their diaper/clothing makes it easier for them to learn new skills (like crawling or rolling over or eating their feet).  Plus, they like it.  My mom suggested that we lay an extra waterproof mattress pad on the floor and put a towel over it. That way if she pees, the towel absorbs it and the mattress pad protects the carpet. We recently bought a California King mattress pad to cover more surface area (see below). We're serious about our naked time 'round these parts.

Have two sets of mattress pads & crib sheets on the bed
I don't just mean "have a spare." I mean, put on a mattress pad and cover it with a sheet, then put another mattress pad OVER that and put another sheet down.  This way, if your baby pukes or has a "poo-splosion" in the middle of the night, you can just peel off the top layer and go back to bed. To be honest, I think this would be even better with three layers (that way there's always a spare in case of an emergency), but that's just me. I don't remember who suggested this, but it was one of the new mamas from my Weddingbee days. 

Set up a mirror for Tummy Time
My friend Ann from my Mom Group suggested putting a mirror in front of Charlie's face during tummy time. All you need is a hand-held mirror, and I tell you: it changed everything for us. Rather than faceplanting and crying endlessly during tummy time, Charlie noticed the pretty girl in the mirror and found that she could actually hold up her own head. After that, we put her in front of her mirrored closet doors and she LOVED tummy time. Below is a photo of the first time we showed her the mirror - it clearly worked for us!

Get them on a schedule
From the moment Charlie was born, my mom was a broken record: "you need to get that baby on a schedule, Sara." It took months for me to take her advice (but in my defense, I'm convinced it's near impossible to get a colicky baby on a schedule). My mom recommended the book My First 300 Babies, which she used when I was a baby. It's an old-school book and suggests letting the baby cry it out from Day 1. I'm not a fan of that philosophy, because I think babies under 5 or so months are too young to cry it out (at least Charlie was). But the book's main message is really helpful: babies like structure in their day, and need to know what to expect. Schedule time into each day for eating, sleeping, and playtime (both with you and alone). But the book that really helped us is called Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child, which was recommended by my friend Karen. This book talks about sleep in babies at various ages and covers no-cry and let-cry solutions. It even talks about sleep in post-colicky babies, which is a whole different animal. Another helpful method is the EASY method (Eat-Activity-Sleep-You time) from the Baby Whisperer (I'll let you click on that link, rather than bore you with the details here).

Set up "stations" around the house
This one is from my friend Kathy. She has twins and has lived to tell about it (sense of humor in tact, no less), so I take pretty much everything she says as gospel.  When Charlie was about three months old, I started to get nervous that I had no idea how to entertain her.  Here was Kathy's (genius) advice: "make sure you have "stations" set up for her, especially by the time she's 2 months. You kind of shuffle her around to each station until she fusses, and then you play with her, and then put her in a different station. These stations could be: activity mat (a must!), vibrating bouncy chair (a must!), swing, blanket with some toys, etc. (Add exersaucer and jumperoo as time goes on.)"  This idea saved my sanity, because Charlie is easily bored.  Now she spends most of her time on the floor with various toys, but if she starts fussing, we'll go into another room and play on THAT floor. She's instantly much happier.

Give your baby plenty of time on the floor
My mother kept telling me that I was "over-thinking" Charlie's day-to-day life. When I was a baby, apparently my mother laid a blanket on the ground and let me wiggle around. I think I felt obligated to entertain Charlie, so leaving her on the floor to fend for herself didn't even occur to me.  But seriously, floor-time is super important. Sometimes I'd put her on her back on the floor, and other times floor-time and tummy-time were one and the same. This gave her plenty of time to experiment and learn about what her body could do, and I think it's the main reason why she learned to roll both directions and crawl. We love floor time. Thanks Mom.

What bits of advice have you received? Anything you care to share?

By-the-week Growth Onesies for Babies

April 1, 2011 in Parenthood & Life • Projects & Tips for Babies & Kids • Personal Projects • Displaying Memories

I've received a lot of emails and Facebook messages from people who'd like to know where I bought the weekly onesies I pose Charlie in every week.  So many, in fact, that I think it's about time I write a blog post about it.

They say no idea is original, and while I don't agree with that (as I'm sure most creative types wouldn't), I will say that this idea was 100% snagged from someone else.  So instead of giving you a step-by-step tutorial, I'll say this:

• They aren't onesies, actually! It's the same white onesie every week, with a new number photoshopped on.
• The idea came from Young House Love, and I put my own twist on it by posing her on the same quilt every week (her head used to be smaller than one of the circles!) and adding weekly highlights.
• The lovely bloggers over at Young House Love wrote a tutorial about how they did it for their baby, and that tutorial can be found here.
• This has been a really, really fun project. I haven't skipped a week since I started (which unfortunately wasn't until she was four weeks old), and I plan to stop when she's a year. At that point, I'm going to make a big Blurb coffee table book for us, plus one for her godmother and each set of grandparents.

Seriously, this project has been super fun - I highly recommend you try it yourself! And if you don't think you have the dedication to do it every week, try it for each month. :)

Charlie’s Pink and Orange Modern Nursery

July 30, 2010 in Parenthood & Life • Projects & Tips for Babies & Kids • Personal Projects • Home

Despite the fact that there are probably more pressing matters to discuss, I am really excited about this, so I’m just going to talk about it now!!

I finished Charlie’s nursery, at least for the most part.  I am SUPER thrilled with how it turned out, so I want to share it with you guys.  It’s the first room in our condo to actually be done, too, so that makes it even more exciting.  I’ll share the other rooms (with before and after photos) as we finish them.  To be honest, I'll probably share them with you as they're works in progress (rather than done) because I've gotten really picky about artwork recently and it's taking me awhile to visualize what I want for each room.  But I digress.

So here are a few photos.  The full set is on Flickr with more detailed photos, but here’s the gist!

First things first: the before photos.  When we bought this place, it was DISGUSTING.  Like, don’t-touch-anything-without-washing-your-hands-and-for-the-love-of-god-don’t-sit-on-the-toilet-seat DISGUSTING.  The guys who lived here were foul, foul people.  Notice in these pictures that the walls are dirty.

But it was the carpets that held the most evidence of their foulness.  We’re talking layers upon layers of stains.  For health reasons, we decided to have the carpets cleaned using a green carpet cleaning service rather than replacing them (did you know that new carpets out-gas for at least five years?  Scary stuff).  You should have seen what they took out of the flooring in Charlie’s room.  Gross.  Here’s the before (try not to barf):

And now, for the afters!

This is the view from the hallway (more on that wallpaper later!) and the entrance to her room.  Last year, I saw a nursery on Ohdeedoh with a FABULOUS art installation.  I stored it in the back of my brain, and it was the first thing I made for Charlie’s room (and I made it in December!).  You might recognize the lanterns from our wedding ceremony.  I love the idea of re-using items, and I think they’re much better executed here, haha.  The alphabet print is from my store, and the dresser & storage containers are all from Ikea.

On the left, a close-up of the changing area.  On the right, the glider area.  The night stand is from Ikea and matches the dresser (they're both "Hemnes").  The glider was $40 from Craigslist and came with a nasty blue cushion.  My fabulous mother made a new cushion (using fabric from Ikea), plus the pouf (using a pattern from Amy Butler) and pillow.  The Felix the Cat stuffed animal was a gift from my grandfather, Charles.  Charlie is named after him.

I am in love with the crib.  I really wanted something sleek and modern (and non-toxic), and the Argington Sahara crib really fit the bill.  The crib comes in several finishes, some of them retailing for over $1k.  We ain’t made of money, though, so we chose the Red Maple finish from allmodernbaby.com, which was half the price and on sale when we bought it.  The bumper and crib skirt were made by my mom, along with the beautiful circle quilt, which she made using a pattern from Bijou Lovely.

No nursery (well, room even) is complete without a little art!  You can see detail shots of these on Flickr, but in summary, there’s an awesome frame with three images from an old Chinese children’s book I found in my in-law’s basement, a custom drawing I did of Charlie with her animal friends, the Wish Tree from my shop, and two free downloads from tinydecorblog.com.  

Charlie’s bookshelf doubles as storage.  We reused the Ikea Expedit from our apartment bedroom (it was used as a room divider there) and filled it with books and knick-knacks.  Can you tell we're fans of Ikea?  I love it.  We now live 10 minutes from one, and it has allowed us to decorate on the cheap - and I think their stuff looks great!

So yeah, that's it!  I am really not into baby-ish nurseries.  I didn't want a bunch of frilly bows everywhere, and dolls & teddy bears kind of scare me.  Luckily I'm not the only one out there with the same feelings about nursery design, and there's a lot of inspiration on websites like Project Nursery and Ohdeedoh.  I hope you guys like it as much as I do!